Concentrate on your mate. Make sure you find time to focus in and concentrate strictly on your mate, we all are busy and by the end of the day most of us are just tired. Golden nugget try not to wait until the end of the day but if you have to make sure the time you set aside for your mate is just that “Time for your mate.” So NO phone calls, emails, Facebook just let it be about them. Let them know you are just as interested in them as any of the other priorities you may have going on. Try rubbing their shoulder’s and let them know how much you appreciate them. Better yet go for a late walk while holding hands and telling them what a great person you think they are and how nice they look. You get the picture just focus in on them, trust me it leads to amazing love-making.
You have to forget about your own pleasures and focus only on what makes your mate relaxed, Help them to forget about the cares of the world. You can do this with a very erotic kiss or try a kiss on the neck. Try rubbing your mates back and kissing their shoulders. It will be very important to observe their response carefully so you can give them more of what your mate really likes. Every mate has a hot spot, your job is to find out what and where it is so you can do more of that. In other words find your mates tune and play it over and over again. Your mate will realize no one knows how to make them feel quite as good as you do.
Remember the more you give, the more you’ll get.