Okay anyone in my inner circle know and understand my commitment and my love for my wonderful hubby (Dr. Stan Harris a.k.a Dr. Breakthrough)
In other words I never lost myself in my husband or lost my identity because I'm so consumed with Dr. Breakthrough and all that he's about..No! I'm still me. I have grown through everything that I have gone through and that is why I can now write about my Break through. I'm secure in the mandate and my first ministry that is His wife). I'm clear that the mandate as a W.I.F.E (Walk In Favor Everyday) empowers my husband. I Am his motivation and his motivator. I'm clear that I have been called to walked beside my husband and be the wind beneath his wings. The sparkle in His Eyes. I too wear many Hats. I have my favorite one and I have my least favorite one. Because of the gift of Choice I Choose daily to wear my Wifee Hat. It's my favorite. It's covered in purple and gold for royalty with sparkles of Diamonds on the rim. I keep it tilted to the side just so I can keep my eye on my prize.
I won't say that I'm every woman..I don't even claim to be super woman..I'll just say that I'm His Woman...
I'm no expert by a long shot but I do understand one thing and that is My Hubby and my Children are my 1st priority
outside of my personal relationship with my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.
I actually like my husband and that makes it so much easier to love and enjoy his company. He is an incredible
leader which is awesome. At anyrate I will share what I have learned and what has helped me and countless of others.
Secrets Men Wish Women Knew
Men Say “I Love You” With Actions
Some men prefer to express their feelings through actions rather than words. Your guy may say “I love you” by fixing things around the house, tidying up the yard, or even taking out the trash — anything that makes your world a better place.
He Really Is ListeningWhen you’re listening to someone talk, you probably pipe in with a “yes” or “I see” every now and then. It’s your way of saying, “I’m listening.” But some guys don’t do this. Just because a man isn’t saying anything doesn’t mean he’s not listening. He may prefer to listen quietly and think about what you’re saying.
Shared Activities Form BondsMen strengthen their relationships primarily through shared activities more than by sharing thoughts or feelings. For many men, activities like sports and sex make them feel closer to their partner.
Men Need Time for ThemselvesWhile shared activities are important, men also need time for themselves. Whether your guy enjoys golf, gardening, or working out at the gym, encourage him to pursue his hobbies, while you make time for your own. When both partners have space to nurture their individuality, they have more to give to each other.
Men Let Go Faster Than WomenWomen tend to remember negative experiences longer and may have lingering feelings of stress, anxiety, or sadness. In contrast, men are less likely to dwell on unpleasant events and tend to move on more quickly. So while you may still want to talk about last night’s argument, your guy may have already forgotten about it.
Men Don’t Pick Up on Subtle CuesMen are more likely to miss subtle signals like tone of voice or facial expressions. And they are especially likely to miss sadness on a woman’s face. If you want to make sure your guy gets the message, be direct.
Men Respond to AppreciationShowing appreciation for your guy can make a big difference in the way he acts. Take parenting. Studies show that fathers are more involved in care-giving when their wives value their involvement and see them as competent.
Men Find Sex Significant
It’s a myth that most men think sex is just sex. For many, sex is a very important act between two committed people. And just like most women, men find sexual intimacy to be most satisfying in the context of a committed relationship. One reason is that long-term partners know how to please one another better than strangers do.
He Likes It When You Initiate SexMost guys feel as though they’re the ones who always initiate sex. But they also like to be pursued and wish their partner would take the lead more often. Don’t be shy about letting your guy know you’re in the mood. Initiating sex some of the time may lead to a higher level of satisfaction for both of you.
Men Like Pleasing Their PartnerYour pleasure is important to your man. But he won’t know what you want unless you tell him. Too many women feel uncomfortable talking about what they like and don’t like. If you can tell him clearly in a way that doesn’t bruise his ego, he’ll listen. Because he knows he’ll feel good if you feel good.
Guys Get Performance AnxietyMost men get performance anxiety on occasion, especially as they age. Your guy may worry about his physique, technique, and stamina. If you can help him learn to relax and stay focused on the pleasures of the moment, sex will become less stressful.
He’s Vested in YouMost men realize there’s a lot to lose if a long-term relationship goes sour — not just each other’s company, but the entire life you’ve built together. If you’re willing to work to strengthen your marriage, chances are your man will be, too.